Frankenstein’s Facebook
Frankenstein’s monster…..never
scared me. The classic irony of creation, exemplified in the quest for an
anti-ethereal scientific form of perfection and everlasting, somehow more
discomforting than frightening. Fashioned In man’s image, naturally.
Today’s modern-monster-creation
equivalent? Facebook.
Now that scares me. Formed from
millions of (posed) images of man, woman, pet and any possible element of one
human being showing off to another. Facebook users, let’s be honest, the main
point for an overwhelming majority of your devotion to the site, is but to rub
your schadenfreude-sprinkled glee in other’s faces. An opportunity to delve
into the lives of others whilst inviting others to delve into your “life” - or
whatever it is you have created as an online portrayal of your existence
(everyone suspiciously seems to live like they’re on an MTV video).
So why a monster tag for
Facebook? Too much control, too much intrusion and way too high a level of
influence on growing minds and perceptions as to what constitutes friendship
and/or networking. Seemingly innocent, but really playing on natural human
social/behavioural desires, unrelentingly focused on relationships…aka..is this
person single? Even the Hollywood portrayal of Facebook’s inception saw founder
Zuckerberg pivoting towards success only after the Eureka moment of adding the
“relationship status” option . So, are we all really manifesting base human
instincts (social gathering, mate suitability, reproduction) via today’s
appropriately pertinent delivery mechanism? From cave to profile page. A
human-leap of progress only in superficial terms furnished with modern
expressions of strength and virility.
Has the original intention of
the creation floundered beyond both control and reason? As with Shelley’s
fictional tale, an experiment in social interaction has mutated and affected a
significant swathe of humanity (800 million users at last count). Some, like
myself (disclosure: I am not on Facebook) perceive a more worrying undercurrent
of manipulation and basic profiteering of psychological insecurity. Worrying
tales of Facebook-fuelled disorders abound, brought upon by awkward and
inadequately equipped adolescents, struggling to deal with traditional but
amplified in-the-world-wide-web of agony and instant humiliation/gratification
world they reside in. A pronounced dilution of what a “friend” really means
today. An exposure to adult-themes and issues witnessed by unformed and
unsuitable young minds. For all the good that a social-networking tool like
Facebook can do (keeping families in touch, spreading word of good causes
etc.), the crowd-effect and danger of manipulation by
powerfully-information-filled branding and marketing groups looms large.
Everyone knowing what everyone
else is up to all-the-time, cannot be a good thing. Much of the latest
financial crisis was created by the “me too” effect of marketing- causing a
dangerous stretch beyond one’s reasonable means. A relentless barrage of
pleasure-filled images of peers and “friends” serves to deepen modern society’s
insecurities and unquenchable lust for “in-your-face” purchases. Worse still,
ideas of what constitutes the “correct” way to think and act, now
increasingly influenced by staring at a screen and mimicking what the majority
applaud and “follow”. Yes, there’s always been an element of the above
threading through history’s cultivation of modern society, but it’s all
happening so much faster and bigger now. Losing individuality and creativity is
dangerous. The web has so far allowed a blossoming of creativity and admirable
expressions of freedom – its greatest achievement – but amassing 1/6th
of the global population into a huge branding exercise (as Facebook’s latest
“media-hub” strategy has done) must rank as a worrying twist to this platform
for open improvement.
E-mail?? What, you don’t have
Facebook?
Putting yourself out there on
display and sharing moments with a growing collection of “friends” is not seen
as a major issue by many. What is growingly alarming is the level of comfort
younger generations have with divulging what used to be known as
private-information to near-strangers. A telling proponent of generational
shifts is to witness attitudes by various age-groups to Facebook. The eldest
view it is a useful tool for staying in touch. The youngsters, that have
literally been brought up with a natural “status updating” lifestyle, seem to
exist more in their profile than off it. That is wrong.
Have you had a conversation with
a tech-savvy teen lately? It is easier to predict weather patterns in Guatemala
than understand their mannerisms and hold their attention
for-longer-than-a-neutrino-flash through a normal conversation. Only a couple
of weeks back I was confronted by a look of confusion and a tinge-of-disgust by
an 18yr old that I suggested an exchange of e-mail to. “Facebook me man” was
the response - as if I had requested they hand-write a letter using cursive,
with perfect grammar, swim across the Atlantic and personally hand-deliver it
to my door. Wow. Are we really that far into it? Is e-mail considered old
technology, akin to people laughing at those still sending faxes back in the
90s?
Get with the times
grumpy-oldish-man!..some of you will be shouting. Adapting and moving with new
technology is what creates barriers between every generation. Those very same
barriers serve mankind well. They allow us to constantly push otherwise
taken-as-gospel previous achievements to one side and reach higher goals
(point in case: the possible recent debunking of Einstein’s - and an entire
previous generation’s - law of physics). Absolutely true. There is no room for
grumpy older technophiles to stand in the way of younger, savvy,
society-changing Tweeters and Facebookers. That is not the concern. All that is
good. But, there should be alarm for the rapid loss of innocence, privacy and
old-school style of communication that has served us so well for the last few
centuries. A backlash has already sprouted amongst some of the more discerning,
with increasing numbers actually deleting Facebook accounts in the realisation
that simply too much exposure is actually detrimental.
Inventing new and wonderful ways
to facilitate mankind’s constant drive for improvement and growth is admirable,
natural even. An invention that starts off as a good-idea but morphs into an
all-powerful daily component of everyday interaction, capable of shaping and
moulding attitudes and perceptions, should be viewed with some scepticism.
Frankenstein’s monster’s
Facebook page status? “Desperately seeking meaning for my existence”.
Aren’t we all.
Hani Kobrossi
Author, you seemed confused in this article!You embrace change yet you DO NOT have a facebook account! To be part of THIS world, one must embrace changes, especially the increasing speed, otherwise be prepared to be left behind!! Nobody is looking back..not even Benny Blanco!!
ReplyDeleteSelf discipline: this is something we have to teach our young! The world is insane and its ONLY going to get worse! One cannot hope/pray that it is a bad dream and it will all go away soon! SELF DISCIPLINE!! Etch this in your memory and be ready for ride of your LIFE!!
Cheers to ALL!!